"Give me sum head" "Give me sum head"

Part of a healthy, monogamous, and sexual relationship requires a healthy and equal amount of chemistry, passion, communication, and nasty. But, if you find yourself in need of a little motivation by the start of the week, after a dry weekend, NEVER FEAR! Captain "wet the bed" is here!! LMAO (and does) Now, Im sure some of you are turning your little chunky noses up at this blog. and that's ok with us! oh yeah, & when I say us, I mean the rest of us humans who aren't afraid to admit that we like, enjoy, and are always open to new and exciting ways to make ourselves better - and that includes sexually. We are not appalled and completely shocked (stop acting) over the things that are in this blog or for that matter, the things to come. We recognize that in life (when it comes to growing) sometimes it is not about the messenger but rather the message. Any information that adds to "the brand" is a good thing , even if it comes from a blog . we are open minded therefore "winners"! NOW, as for u judgmental losers, please get off my blog. I am so excited to ANNOUNCE our NEW mini Blog series: KINKY TIP OF THE WEEK! (please try this at home) Each week AAGW will be highlighting some amazing tips and advice to assist you with your intentions to continue to pleasure your partner and "rock the bed". As always, if you want to add to, take away, or simply complain about, feel free to drop me a line at aagwquestions@gmail.com or inbox me of course. In the mean time, enjoy and try some of the easy fix tips and extras to get the fire going again and again and again.. to kick off this weeks BLOG & KT of the week we welcome an email i got about 4 days ago . she writes, My husband and I have been married for 2 years, together for 4. our sex life has always been great, but lately I feel that I am nothing more than a mouth for him.("yes I laughed too") He wants oral sex everyday, and though I didn't mind it, it seems that he has no emotions about it, no cuddling, no kissing, just him pulling it out and saying suck me. I hate it because I need the emotional aspect of it. I give him a BJ every time before sex, (bj.. luv it) and it is very rare that he even touches me before we have sex. What can I do to make my husband understand that I love him and desire him, but when he just wants me to suck him, I feel so left out? *** ok ok ok, first let me say that I am in no way a doctor or a sex expert but I do have an honest perspective and just like my other blogs I did poll and I have the opinion of those persons as well. Now all together you guys have been in a relationship for 6 years. I'm sure the topic of "head" didn't just POP(im on a roll)up! My moma use to tell me, what you did to get him will be necessary to keep him. ***OFF THE RECORD(pause) 10 points to you and your mouth! he likes it so clearly its good-you know what you're doing.*** I think its clear to say that you knew and still know about his sexual needs and at some point putting on a show wasn't a problem. yet, now it is. Which leads me to believe that the issue isn't him ( he's happy) the issue is you. When we start any type of relationship, it is our responsibility to teach people how we want to be treated and what we expect.. yes there is recovery in this "habit that YOU started" first we have to admit that we started it. Communication is the answer. communicate with your partner about how you did and still do enjoy pleasing him but, don't forget the include your needs in return. sex is a give and take, the beauty of it comes in when it is done mutually and with out asking. Let him know how his approach makes you feel and then include how he can change it. Be clear! Now lets keep in mind that he is a man and to much of the "pompon circumstance" could very well kill the fantasy for him. Ultimately ending in him not being satisfied! Compromise is key to this victory. I did survey a few men aged 27-34 and with the exception of those who are completely cut off from mouth to skin pleasure, LMAO, they agree that oral sex is important to their sexual satisfaction even more so, if she starts off giving it then YES! it is expected to continue. FYI:Giving head saves lives! I’m not joking people, the health benefits are many. Studies show that Giving your man “head” can lower blood pressure, relieve stress, and even lower the risk of colon and prostate cancer. YES BOO, all that with no medication, just some good old-fashioned “head” : ) Show him you really care! SUCK HIS DICK! Which brings us to the tip of the week, I've been told that giving your man head twice a day opens the lines of communication... SO TRY IT: before or after spark up a good conversation the key is to assume the position. If you typically give head while in bed, catch him while he's chilling. Pull his paints down and start talking, let him know that you want to play around but first you would like to talk about something, or maybe right after while he's relaxed.. If on the couch seems better for you, GET ON YO KNEES BOO, I'm sure that when u assume the position you will immediately grab his attention. Cant wait for Fridays comments!!! ohhh yeah and for those of YOU who need a lil help, This cool tip comes from an anonymous friend who asked to be called goldenK31... she writes: This little blowjob tip is something you can sprinkle into your “ordinary routine”, BUT it is not something you want to base your whole shabang on. -Start at the base of his cock.( I hate that word by the way) Slowly lick your way up his shaft, almost like you would do if you had a lollipop. Then, when you’re at the top of his shaft, just beneath his head, swallow as much of his cock(no no word) as you can in one taking. This will definitely make your man go crazy. Thanks so much to everyone who made this topic possible... til next week